Difference between dating black men and white men
Isn't there a hybrid who isn't "in between jobs and houses" but still wants to lick chocolate off our stomachs?
Back in the day I had just finished playing a pick-up basketball game. Indeed white ball players who move like Black players are said to have Black souls or are blue eyed soul brothas. Despite those who complain about the gains made by feminism the men at the top of the pyramid are white men. Women regardless of their race or culture will always give some deference to the dominant men.
Anybody who watches Black players and white players on a basketball court can see the difference in how they move and in their rhythm. What I have observed is that Black men and white men in general approach the “game” in different ways. To be clear this isn’t saying one way is superior or better. There’s also an angle with the white game I haven’t seen anyone acknowledge. In Western culture white men are at the top of the pecking order. When a white man approaches a woman he is seen a part of the dominant group.
Thus when a white man approaches a woman, even a woman from a different race from his, she will have a tendency to be receptive. Black men are not seen as the dominant male in Western culture. Once she comes to him or chooses him then he uses his words to seal the deal. They understood women are drawn a physical appearance which isn’t just his face and body but also his clothes.My friend likes black girls, but he doesn’t like them too dark!” Against my better judgment, I assumed that the wingman just wasn’t very good at his job and started talking to his friend anyway.I wish I could say that I’m surprised and appalled by the ignorance that white men tend to show when they approach me, but I’ve come to expect it.While white men are not the only group to hold racial biases and stereotypes against black women, they tend to be the least informed on the racialized and gendered issues that black women endure.